My funeral dress was a success...the spaghetti
straps were a good call. As my dad likes to say it was pretty "balmy"
outside. Ghanaian funerals are quite the experience. While you still wear
black cloth, you would think that you’re at some kind of festival or party.
Music is blasting, people are dancing, and alcohol is flowing. I could feel the
bass throughout my body…more so than at a concert. I’m surprised there aren’t
more deaf people here. Noise ordinances don’t exist here so if you ever want to
throw a pretty great rager, head over to Ghana. That being said, people still
do mourn at funerals, just not like we are used to. I kind of like that
funerals here seem to be more of a celebration of life than mourning a loss. I
think it’s a pretty great way to grieve. But everyone has his or her own
healing process so you have to respect that.
On Sunday I didn’t go to church, again, but instead I had a
long conversation with my mother and cousin about religion. It was pretty
insightful, for me. I don’t know if they quite understand the points I was
trying to make, but they are still talking to me so that’s a good sign. When I
first got to site I went to the Methodist church with my family, but I have
stopped going. For one, it’s all in the local language so I don’t understand
anyways, and second, I am not a religious person. At least I haven’t found a
religion that resonates with me. Maybe one day. But having the inevitable
religion talk was bound to happen and it ends up being a good cultural
exchange. I can just put a check mark next to Peace Corps Goals 2 and 3 (2. Helping promote a better
understanding of Americans on the part of the peoples served and 3. Helping
promote a better understanding of other peoples on the part of Americans). The
missionaries did their work in this country. I haven’t met a single Ghanaian
that isn’t religious. I can only hope that Peace Corps Ghana is as successful
as the missionaries were.
Sunday afternoon I went to a local football match with my
brother, Kofi aka Prince Harry (that’s really his English name) and my sister,
Akosua aka Louisa. Afere has a football team and on Sunday they qualified to
Division 1 so the whole town was celebrating. After dinner I went out with my
Akos and one of the teachers, Kofi or Frimpong, from the JHS. We went to a
local bar, which is known as spots, and sat outside and chatted. That didn’t
last very long because the music started blasting Azonto music. I swear I felt
like I was at a nightclub. People came up from the woodwork and they all crammed
together on the dance floor. If you haven’t already, youtube Azonto so you can
see what I’m talking about. I’m fascinated by this dance. All Ghanaians are
spectacular dancers so I love to watch them dance. I could sit there for hours
and just watch.
I was at the JHS all day again. I really enjoy being around
the teachers there. They are so nice and easy to talk to. They are the rare few
who don’t constantly propose to me. But when I told them I probably wouldn’t
get married and have kids until I’m in my 30s, they thought I was crazy! Ah
cultural exchanges! I explained to them it’s important that I have money and
complete my master’s degree first (cough cough, now Dad buy my plane ticket
back to America for Christmas). They were also shocked to find out that
“Hayley” doesn’t carry a special meaning and that I was just named after Hayley
Mills. Of course they didn’t know who Hayley Mills is so that didn’t really
help my case.
I met with my girls group and the hygiene club in the
afternoon. I wanted to reintroduce myself and make sure people were still
interested. The girls club is going to be strictly girls and since all the
teachers are men I had to find a couple of willing girls to be my translators.
After much prodding, I finally got three girls, Bernice, Emelia, and Veronica
to volunteer. I don’t know how well they can speak English, but it’s probably a
lot better than my Twi. My community mobilizer brought me some educational
materials this evening. My local NGO gave the community mobilizers flipcharts and
other teaching tools so I’ll be able to use those with the clubs at school. It
should be easier to teach if the students have something to look at.
This evening I was supposed to meet with the Hairdressers
Association and the Tailors Association. However, the electricity was out all
day so the chairwomen were unable to make an announcement over the loud
speaker. Africa. So we are rescheduling for Wednesday. Hopefully it works out
this time.
I’m headed to Wiawso tomorrow to meet up with Gayle and
Heather. Wiawso is about an hour taxi ride from here, so not that bad for Peace
Corps standards. Gotta get my ipod all charged and ready to go!
In honor of Memorial Day, thank you to all of the men and women who have served and are currently serving our country. I'm proud to say that my little brother is a member of the US Army.